
With the weather getting nicer and the month of March beginning to wind up, spring is beginning to bloom. I don't know about other colleges, but here on the BYU-I campus, there's one main thing that pops into my mind once spring is in the air: let the engagements/relationships begin. I dont' know if I've just been oblivious or more accepting of relationships this semester, but it has been seeming like more people I know are in relationships or getting engaged. I have one previous FHE brother who I thought I overheard talking about how he has a girlfriend, I have a current FHE brother who I thought had broken up with his girlfriend but today I saw him holding hands with a girl (we said hi to each other; we've become good friends), and I don't even want to think about how many girls in my ELED classes are engaged or married. One of my clogging/dance friends is in a relationship right now too.
I'm not going to lie, this whole lack of dating thing is getting old. I know the solution to getting asked out is being more social, but I have been really social this semester! Up until the last couple weeks when I was doing stuff with family and then giving myself a weekend of downtime, I have done something with friends every single weekend. I have a few guy friends, but I don't think I've actually been on any dates this semester. I suppose it might be a good thing right now because I have been trying to do my best with my classes, so that has kept me really busy. Maybe this semester is meant for me to make more guy friends or make myself noticed so that during the summer semester, I might get asked out? I dunno. That's just my theory.
This seems to happen every year to me, actually. Every year around March or April or whenever the snow starts to melt and couples seem to have multiplied, the idea of a relationship and seeing couples on campus makes me irritated. Then again, maybe its the closing of the semester and the stress getting to me. I've been more stressed lately with deadlines, tests, and assignments due, so that may also be a contributor. In any case, maybe I'll get lucky sometime soon and get asked out by a great guy that I get along with really well.








